How A Healthy Sexual Relationship Can Be A Much More Pleasurable Experience Than Porn
Having a healthy sexual relationship with an intimate person is definitely something that most people would like to have and always try to look for. However, as much as this may sound correct for everyone, it’s not the case for most porn and sexual addicts. There are tons of reasons for this and we will be covering most of them as well as how you can make something which may seem to be boring to a porn addict, much more appealing.
Why Some Like Porn Better
If you are a porn addict and you also happen to be in a relationship, then you should know what I’m talking about. Most porn addicts are so addicted to porn that, they would rather watch porn to acheive sexual climax rather than having sex and the reason for this is simply because the years of doing so just made it a habit.
For most people addicted to porn, their addiction have dated well before they even got into a relationship. For most, it can start even at the age of 11. That being said, the years of pornography use and masturbation eventually becomes an addiction and while most addict think that once they get into a relationship, everything will leave, it is not the case.
They have become so used to this addiction and the fantasizing that a healthy sexual relationship no longer seems appealing to them. Furthermore, absurd and immoral things seem to be much more exciting and gives them a much better high.
Comparing Both Approach From The Addicts Point Of View
Pornography addiction gives much more flexibility to the addict than a healthy sexual relationship with a person because they can simply watch any women doing anything. Having an intimate relationship with the same person simply seems boring to them. Now if they were to compare both a healthy sexual relationship to say, an unwanted sexual behavior in a scale from 1 to 10, the unwanted sexual behaviors would probably be in the top while the healthy sexual relationship on the bottom.
Even though watching porn and masturbation gives a person a feeling of fulfillment and betrayal once they’re done, they still prefer it because of the rush it gives you while you going thru it. Now If you also feel this way, here’s why a healthy sexual relationship would feel better even though you think it wouldn’t.
Comparing Both Approach From The Healthy Sexual Relationship Point Of View
Now this might seem to be impossible to you if you suffer from porn addiction or any unwanted sexual behavior for that matter but it simply works by seeing things from a different perspective. Since the process of watching porn or masturbation seems to give you a better time, it ends up always leaving you with a sense of frustration and betrayal in the end while when you engage in a healthy sexual relationship with a partner you love, it gives you a much more sense of accomplishment and fulfillment, even though you didn’t find the whole process as powerful.
Now if you look at both approach overall from start to finish, the one that give you the most sense of fulfillment is the latter one. You need to understand that your unwanted sexual behaviors is just an artificial way of filling in your intimacy void. People who are in need of affection and intimacy often take this path but just as mentioned above, it will leave you regretting and betrayed.
See; Are Your Unwanted Sexual Behaviors Symptoms Of A Much Deeper Issue?
That being said, have you ever noticed old couples who never seem to have any problems together and have such a strong bond? That is simply because they have created a very strong intimate bond together, something that is much more valuable to their eyes then something such as porn. You can also build a healthy sexual relationship and destroy your old porn or sexual habits. It may take some time but eventually you will find it much more pleasing to have an healthy sexual relationship rather than an unwanted sexual behavior.
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Peculiar article, just what I wanted to find.
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