The Irony Behind Trying To Stop Watching Porn
I can’t help but notice the fact that most people trying to stop watching porn try so hard to leave but just the fact that they’re doing it all wrong, it seems nearly impossible to do so. Ever noticed how most people trying to quit smoking or quit drinking try so hard but never really change? They’ll even do new year resolutions which never work. The funny thing about all of this is that its not really their fault but simply because they don’t know how to do so.
You’re Working Against You!
Here’s the thing, you will think that most are simply not trying hard enough or don’t have the willpower to do so. The irony behind this is that willpower can only get you so far. These urges are so strong that even if a person manages to leave it for a certain period of time, they can fall back so easily into it (which this is the case for most).
And another thing I have to point out is on how most people trying to stop watching porn try to not think about it and they try so hard that it’s actually working against them.
Think about it this way; if I tell you to not think about elephants, now no matter how hard you try not to think about elephants, you’ll keep on thinking about it. Why? Because you are actually TRYING not to think about it so hard that you can’t think about anything else.
Same thing can be said about porn. In the heat of the moment, most people will try so hard not to think about it that they cannot think about anything else besides porn. This is the number one thing most will try to stop watching porn and it fail all the time.
What Should You Do Instead?
To stop watching porn, instead of going against your own will, you have to go WITH IT. You have to ride it and find an alternative means to your desire.
Just think about it this way; your urges are so strong that if you’re working against it, you can’t last very long. If you use it to work with you however, it’s a driving force that can be very stronger and will make you stop watching porn. This goes to show that you can definitely stop watching porn. You only need to have the proper understanding of it and take action.
Knowing how to use this powerful drive with you instead of against you is what you will learn in Candeo. This is simply understanding how your brain works and how to make it work for you in order to stop watching porn.
